12 May 2009
When to Stop
Yep. . . . . the ultimate question. When to stop. . . . .when to stop. . . . . stop to soon, and you simply run the risk of a bratty, defiant attitude. If I'm to guess, I'll assume this happens frequently. . . . . getting a spanking long enough to piss one off, but not long enough to solve the problem. (Usually, after a spanking, I open up. If it hasn't been long enough, I get sullen, withdrawn, and extremely defiant.) However, if one goes too long, the spanker runs the risk of causing physical damage or damaging trust. So what's the median? My theory is that there really isn't a set one. It takes a high level of trust to know when to continue, and at what intensity. Reactions have to be watched carefully, as do responses. A contrite, "Yes, sir" lets one know that the point is being received, whereas a sharp, sullen, "Whatever!" definitely gives the opposite position. But what do I know? I'm just a spankee. . . . . I toss the question out to you tops. . . . .when do you know when to stop?
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I have found that the tone of the voice and body language is my best clue as to when to stop. I have stopped too sonn and had to continue which is something I dont like to do because that means I have misjudged the lady in question. I try to pay attention to her tone and body langauge, however sometime I had had her try to be defiant and that can not be tolerated and will be dealt with. I hope I have been pretty good at judging her attitude and her level of acceptance. When she accepts it is a wonderful thing to have her crawl up in my lap for a hug and next thing I know she is asleep.When she goes to sleep I have stayed in one position for hours so as to not wake her up. To me that is the role of a spanker not just to spank. Any body can hit a bottom. The trick is to be sure to reasure that the spankee has reach her acceptance level and you have done your job of aftercare. That I feel is my strong point aftercare. You must always REMEMBER to do aftercare
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